Building Referral Relationships with Solicitors, Financial Advisers and Will-Writers

Lesson 6
11 minutes

How to brief advisers so they can raise the option well

This lesson gives fundraisers a briefing method for equipping solicitors, financial advisers and will-writers with neutral prompts, clear handoff points and escalation routes without turning them into advocates for one charity.

Listen to the lesson

A briefing is not a sales kit

Once a professional agrees to hear more, the charity can easily undo the trust it has earned.

The mistake is to treat the briefing as a chance to transfer the charity’s bequest pitch into the adviser’s mouth. That creates exactly the risk earlier lessons have been working to avoid: the adviser stops being a neutral professional and becomes a soft advocate for one organisation.

A good briefing has a narrower purpose. It helps the professional do three things well:

Raise charitable giving as a normal planning option.

Keep the client’s choice open.

Know when to hand the conversation back to qualified advice or to the charity for organisational facts.

That is enough.

The evidence supports normal, low-pressure raising of the option. In the UK Behavioural Insights Team trial with Remember A Charity and Co-operative Legal Services, charitable gifts in wills rose from about 5% to around 10–11% when solicitors routinely asked about charitable giving. Follow-up UK work found that solicitors and clients were broadly comfortable with the option being raised as a normal part of will-writing, and that the wording mattered.

The wording matters because bequest decisions are not mainly a transaction. Dr Russell James’s research connects charitable bequest decisions with identity, autobiography and continuity. Lead with pressure, death or charity need, and the conversation becomes harder. Start with values, people and causes that matter to the client, and the professional can raise the option without making it feel like a campaign.

Your briefing should therefore give advisers language they can use safely, not enthusiasm they have to translate.


Framework

The adviser briefing sequence

Use this five-part sequence when briefing solicitors, financial advisers or will-writers. Each part should be brief, neutral and usable.

  1. 1
    Set the role: raise the category, not the charity
    What it means: The professional’s role is to raise charitable giving as a possible planning topic. It is not to recommend your organisation, identify prospects, or persuade a client to make a gift.
    What the fundraiser says in the briefing: “The purpose of this briefing is not to ask you to promote our charity. It is to help you raise charitable giving neutrally when it fits the client’s own values or instructions.”
    What the professional can say to a client: “Charitable giving is one option some people consider as part of their estate planning. We can talk about whether that matters to you, or leave it aside.”
    Why it works: The client is offered a choice. The adviser is not turned into an advocate. The charity stays in its proper role.
  2. 2
    Name the right moments: signals are openings, not targeting rules
    What it means: Professionals need help recognising when the topic may be relevant. A signal is not proof that a person should be asked for a gift. It is only a reason the adviser may include the charitable option in a broader planning conversation.
    Useful signals: A client mentions long-term support for a charity. A client talks about values, community, faith, medical care, education, environment or a cause connected to their life. A client asks what will happen to an organisation after they are gone. A client has no obvious family beneficiaries, or says they have provided for family and wants to consider other priorities. A client asks about philanthropy, giving during life, or what their estate should achieve.
    Evidence to handle carefully: Include a Charity’s 2023 analysis of reported bequests from participating Australian charities found about 61% of bequestors were already known to the charity, and about 70% came from people without children. Those are useful context points. They are not instructions to target known donors or childless clients.
    What the fundraiser says in the briefing: “These signals do not mean a client should leave a gift. They only suggest the charitable option may be relevant enough to mention neutrally.”
    What the professional can say to a client: “You have mentioned several organisations that have mattered to you over time. Would you like those causes considered in your estate planning, or would you prefer to keep the plan focused on family and friends?”
    Why it works: The adviser is responding to the client’s own words. The prompt does not assume a gift. It gives the client an easy way to decline.
  3. 3
    Use a neutral question ladder: open, explore, then hand off
    What it means: A single blunt question can sound transactional. A question ladder lets the professional start broadly, then move only as far as the client wants to go. Step one — open the topic: “As well as the people you want to provide for, are there any causes, communities or organisations you want reflected in your planning?” Step two — explore only if the client says yes: “What has made that cause important to you?” Step three — hand off to details: “If you decide to include an organisation, we can make sure the correct legal details are obtained, and your solicitor can advise on the wording.”
    Why it works: The ladder follows the client’s permission. It starts with values, not mechanics. It also prevents the adviser from jumping straight to gift size, wording or charity promotion.
    How to adapt it by role:
    For a solicitor: “Before we finalise instructions, are there any charities or community organisations you want me to note, or is the estate to remain only with the people you have named?”
    For a financial adviser: “When you think about what your wealth should do beyond your lifetime, do charitable or community purposes form part of that picture?” For a will-writer: “This part is optional. Would you like to include a charity or community organisation, skip this section, or seek advice before deciding?”
    Why the adaptations differ: The solicitor is gathering instructions. The financial adviser is exploring intentions. The will-writer is helping the client complete a process without pressure.
  4. 4
    Give the information handoff: facts, not advice
    What it means: Once a client names the charity, the adviser needs accurate organisational details and a clear path for questions. The charity should make that easy.
    What the fundraiser gives the adviser: Full legal name. ABN. DGR status where relevant. A short factual description of the charity’s work. A staff contact for organisational questions. A boundary note saying the charity cannot advise on estate structure, tax outcome, gift size, family provision risk or wording validity.
    What the professional can say to a client: “If you want to consider that organisation, we can obtain its correct details. The charity can confirm who they are and what they do; your legal and financial advisers should advise on the structure and effect of the gift.”
    Why it works: The client gets the information they need without the charity becoming the adviser.
  5. 5
    Build the stop points: when the adviser should pause or escalate
    What it means: A briefing is incomplete unless it tells professionals when not to continue with a simple prompt.
    Stop or escalate when: The client asks which gift type is best for their estate. The client asks whether a gift will reduce tax. The client wants to leave a large share of the estate to charity where family members or dependants may expect provision. The client appears confused, pressured, grieving, unwell or dependent on another person in the room. The client asks whether specific wording is valid. The client wants a restricted, named or conditional gift that may be hard for the charity to honour. The client’s family situation is complex, including estrangement, blended families or potential family provision claims.
    What the professional can say to a client: “That is an important question and it depends on your circumstances. I do not want to treat it as a simple charity-information point. We should get the right legal or tax advice before you decide.”
    What the fundraiser says in the briefing: “We would rather a conversation pause for proper advice than move quickly toward a gift that later creates conflict, challenge or regret.”
    Why it works: The adviser gets permission to slow down. The charity shows it values a valid, durable decision more than a quick charitable instruction.

Scenario

The briefing that drifts into advocacy

Leila is the gifts-in-wills manager at North Coast Mental Health, a regional charity. A financial planning firm has invited her to brief six advisers during a lunch session. The firm’s clients are mostly retirees, small-business owners and couples selling property before moving into retirement living.

Leila prepares a slide titled “How to talk to clients about leaving a gift to North Coast Mental Health.”

The first version includes these lines:

“Many of your clients will have the capacity to leave a meaningful gift.”

“Clients without children are especially strong prospects.”

“You can explain that a gift in the will lets them support mental health without affecting their current lifestyle.”

“If they have supported us before, ask whether they would like to make that support permanent.”

“Once they agree, send them our suggested wording.”

That briefing would create risk.

It turns client capacity into prospecting.

It treats childlessness as a targeting instruction rather than context.

It turns “does not affect current lifestyle” into an implied recommendation without exploring the client’s estate, family or advice position.

It uses previous support as a persuasion trigger.

It makes suggested wording sound like the next step rather than something a solicitor should draft or review.

Leila rewrites the slide as “How to raise charitable giving neutrally.”

The revised version says:

“Raise the category, not our charity.”

“Use the client’s own values as the opening.”

“Ask permission before exploring.”

“Provide our organisational details only if the client asks about us.”

“Pause for qualified advice where the question involves tax, estate structure, family provision, gift size, capacity or wording.”

She then gives advisers three prompts:

“Are there any causes or communities you want your estate plan to reflect?”

“Would you like to explore charitable giving as part of the broader plan, or keep the discussion focused on personal beneficiaries?”

“If a particular organisation matters to you, we can obtain its correct details and your solicitor can advise on the wording.”

That version does less selling and more professional work. It gives advisers usable language while keeping the decision, and the advice, in the right place.


Next step

Build a 20-minute adviser briefing

Use this structure for a short briefing with solicitors, financial advisers or will-writers.

Opening — 2 minutes

Say:

“Our aim is not to ask you to recommend our organisation. It is to make charitable giving easier to raise neutrally when it is relevant to the client, and to make sure you have accurate organisational information if our charity is named.”

Do not say:

“We want to help your clients leave a legacy with us.”

Evidence — 4 minutes

Say:

“Australian sources suggest a gap between charitable intent and charitable gifts in wills. Roughly a third of Australians say they would consider a gift to charity, while sources cluster around 6.5–8% of wills actually containing one. UK solicitor research found that routine, low-pressure asking increased charitable gifts in wills from about 5% to around 10–11%. That is UK evidence, not an Australian trial, but it supports making the option visible.”

Do not say:

“The evidence proves that asking every client will double gifts here.”

Signals — 4 minutes

Say:

“The topic may be relevant when a client talks about causes that have shaped their life, long-term support for an organisation, community values, or what they want their estate to stand for. These are openings for a neutral question, not reasons to steer the client.”

Do not say:

“Look for older clients, childless clients or wealthy clients who may be good prospects.”

Language — 5 minutes

Give three prompts:

“For solicitors: ‘Are there any charities or community organisations you want included in your instructions, or should the estate remain with the people you have named?’”

“For financial advisers: ‘Do any charitable or community purposes form part of what you want your wealth to achieve over time?’”

“For will-writers: ‘Would you like to include a charity, skip this section, or seek advice before deciding?’”

Then say:

“The client can say yes, no or not now. The prompt has done its job if the client understands the option and feels free to decline.”

Handoff — 3 minutes

Say:

“If a client names our organisation, we can provide our full legal name, ABN, DGR status where relevant, a short description of our work and a staff contact. We cannot advise on estate structure, tax outcome, gift size, family provision risk or whether wording is valid.”

Do not say:

“We can provide the wording clients need.”

Escalation — 2 minutes

Say:

“Please pause and direct the client to qualified advice if the question involves tax, family provision, capacity, a large or unusual gift, restricted conditions, uncertainty about wording, or disagreement among family members.”

Do not say:

“Most gifts are straightforward once the client has chosen the charity.”

After the briefing, send a one-page follow-up containing only four things:

The neutral prompts.

The charity’s organisational details.

The boundary note.

The escalation triggers.

Leave out campaign stories, urgency language, donor conversion targets and requests for preferred-charity placement.


Key idea

A good adviser briefing gives professionals the confidence to raise charitable giving as an ordinary client option while preserving neutrality, consent and qualified advice.

What this changes

You now have a briefing method that is useful without being pushy.

The professional does not need a charity sales script. They need a role frame, relevance signals, neutral prompts, accurate information and clear stop points. That is the difference between equipping an adviser and recruiting an advocate.

This lesson also protects the referral relationship. Professionals are more likely to keep using a charity’s information when it helps them serve clients safely. They are less likely to engage when the charity turns the briefing into prospecting, persuasion or advice by proxy.

The next lesson challenges the course’s main thesis by looking at will-writing partnerships: when access to more will-makers is useful, and when scale creates reputational, ethical or compliance risk.